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In a conscious relationship each partner strives toward androgyny. Reading it feels like an intense therapy session.

Keeping the Love you Find

Individual freedom, a relatively recent concept in our psychohistorical evolution, has in reality amounted to a feeling of the masculine only. Hendrix i Harville Hendrix, Ph.

If it doesn’t get better soon, back it goes. The process of wounding is the same. We want ourselves back. When your fear abates, you will be more capable of examining and dismantling your character defenses so that your authentic self can emerge. The conflicts you will have with your partner are externalizations of the conflicts going on inside you.

At-one-ment is keeping the love you find pdf download natural outcome of recognizing, accepting, and owning all of ourselves. What you love in your partner is what you buried in yourself in order to survive. I am not trusted. This is the most annoying book I’ve read in a long time.

Befriending and learning from the opposite sex is a primary means of getting in touch with our contrasexual energy. The industrial revolution, when fathers yu the first time left home to work in factories while mothers stayed at home, powerfully defined gender roles. Which brings us to another key to opening the doors of paradise: If so, yhe will have to contend with more severe difficulties and complications in your attempts to establish a lasting relationship.

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The culturally imposed sex roles and sexual pdff we have been discussing with respect to gender are particularly devastating in the sexual arena. Thanks for telling us about the problem. In doing these exercises, you decrease the rigidity of the defensive structure around your energetic core….

To validate another person means that you put yourself in his place, behind his eyeballs, and look at the situation from his point of view.

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I will be absorbed if I get close. This gift of grace is the fruit of discipline.

The author says that by consciously acknowledging these issues, using dialogue, and committing to behavior change motivated by love for your partner, is the only way each can heal. The partners in a conscious relationship recognize that the purpose of their relationship is to heal their childhood wounds.

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To recognize the equal worth of another is to give up our egocentricity, to share the center. This is probably the only book in the self help section I would ever recommend.

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